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Erfahrung mit Grooming und die Suche nach Unterstützung

    • Hey guys can I get some support? Tw btw (venting and topic about sa) About 41 days ago, my friend of 4 years groomed me. It was really bad, and it's stuck with me and inflicted trauma on me. I am really upset about it. I won't add too much details in what he did. I told some of my friends, and posted some screenshots in wje. I have decided with my friends that we are going to call him out, and tell were he goes to college. This night sound dramatic, but he is 19, I am 15, and he has done this to another girl before. On top of that, he was always manuplstive and used my friends for his own self. What my friends and I did, we gathered proof, and out it in a Google doc, and plan to email his college. I know if I dont speak up, he will do it to another girl. He will only hurt more people, but at the same time this could hurt him and his life. Even if he did traumatize me, and sexually assaulted me, I feel bad knowing I could fuck upset his life. I know I'm doing the right thing, and getting justice, and stopping him from hurting more people, hopefully. It's just really hard, as he was my best friend for years, and I'm just asking for support and for you guys to be here for me while this happens. Thank you and I love you all. 🫶

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    • I really do care about him and wish he never did this, it messed me up horribly. I know I'm doing the right thing, I just wish I didnt have to, that I could go back in time to when things were normal. I hate myself at points for the potential harm I may cause, but I need to. I'm just upset with this all. Although I am safe and have no plans or intent on hurting myself or taking drugs of any kind.

    RMVF Eingriffstrupp

    Maybe First Talk to his parents

    Unfortunately I can't speak to his parents, I know this seems extreme but sexuak assault shouldn't be taken lightly, esp when I know if I dont someone else will be at risk.

    RMVF Eingriffstrupp

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    Thank you, it's been really difficult processing it and now speaking up. It took me two weeks to even tell the people I usually vent too, also that's when I started like to process what happens. I still can't process that it was him who did that. He would be the last person I would think too. I'm hurting a lot because of this

    idk how it is in your country. but here in germany you can just charge him for this. and can get up to 10 years in prison and you would get 10k-25k€ if its only one time. 30k-70€ if multiple times. and 100k€ of its a really bad thing he did, like making you K/O and abused that

    Well id definitely like to say it wasn't rape, so he wouldn't get up to 10 years. Sexaul assault and rape are diffrent. I don't plan to go to legal powers, but someone did text me saying that in the Senate he's doing college in, the college we are telling this too, that he would get 2 years in join and a fine, I don't remember the number of. I just want to thell his college with hopes he gets it on his permanent record and gets expelled, and just ruin his future chances. If they see fit to bring him to court, I asked them they do not involve me, but can take the proof I've given, and I said Ill provide more. The email is planed to be sent tomorrow though. If nothing happens, ill go to a higher up and report him to authorities.

    K!tty

    Unfortunately I can't speak to his parents, I know this seems extreme but sexuak assault shouldn't be taken lightly, esp when I know if I dont someone else will be at risk.

    What exactly ist grooming

    eine minderjährige person an der stange halten bis sie volljährig ist um dann sexuell mit dieser person was zu haben

    K!tty

    Well id definitely like to say it wasn't rape, so he wouldn't get up to 10 years. Sexaul assault and rape are diffrent. I don't plan to go to legal powers, but someone did text me saying that in the Senate he's doing college in, the college we are telling this too, that he would get 2 years in join and a fine, I don't remember the number of. I just want to thell his college with hopes he gets it on his permanent record and gets expelled, and just ruin his future chances. If they see fit to bring him to court, I asked them they do not involve me, but can take the proof I've given, and I said Ill provide more. The email is planed to be sent tomorrow though. If nothing happens, ill go to a higher up and report him to authorities.

    I realy want To know how this ends

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    1. Es tut mir leid, Kitty. Du solltest menschen im Internet weniger trauen als du es jetzt tust. Leider sind hinter den Nachrichten andere Menschen, wie wir sie sehen. Gerade im Internet zeigen leute nur das, was sie wollen das man sieht. 2. Hätte ich mal Bock jemand zu exposen. Manche wissen was mir damals widerfahren ist, nur leider hatte ich nie die Kraft da etwas gegen zu machen, geschweige denn offen mit jemand in echt darüber zu reden.

    K!tty

    I really do care about him and wish he never did this, it messed me up horribly. I know I'm doing the right thing, I just wish I didnt have to, that I could go back in time to when things were normal. I hate myself at points for the potential harm I may cause, but I need to. I'm just upset with this all. Although I am safe and have no plans or intent on hurting myself or taking drugs of any kind.

    Bleib stark, es werden bessere Zeiten kommen

    Gerade wenn man Jung, Naiv und auf der suche nach Liebe ist, tendiert man dazu, ausgenutzt zu werden. Vielleicht kann man so Luzifer interpretieren. Er liebte Gott so sehr, dass Gott ihn in die Hölle warf.

    Maxi03#katzexemmaa

    religion ist auslegungssache :)

    Nur in gewissen Bereichen

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